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26 June 2005:   Parting Notes 13: Thanks to the Parish Family
19 June 2005:   Parting Notes 12: Personal Notes on becoming oneself
12 June 2005:   Tithing Committee, Parting Notes 11: Ministry of Support
5 June 2005:   Parting Notes 10: Building Community
29 May 2005:   The Task of Leaving, Parting Notes 9: Pastoral Outreach
22 May 2005:   Parting Notes 8: Prayer & Spirituality
15 May 2005:   Summer Schedule, Parting Notes 7: Pastoral & Personal Care
8 May 2005:   Parting Notes 6: On On the Liturgy
1 May 2005:   The Second and Third Sacraments
        Parting Notes 5: Spirituality
24 April 2005:   Parting Notes 4: On Making people Welcome
17 April 2005:   Parting Notes 3: All are called to the work of
        the Good Shepherd
10 April 2005:   Pope John Paul II, Fr. Gerry Gregoire, Confirmation
        Sacrament of the Sick, Parting Notes 2
3 April 2005:   Mercy Sunday, Marriage Preparation, Confirmation
        Parting Notes 1
27 March 2005:   Christ Is Risen!
20 March 2005:   Good Friday & the Church in the Holy Land, Local Needs,
        Memories of Father Martin, Reflections on Lent 6
13 March 2005:   Triduum & Easter Sunday Schedule, Reflections on Lent 5
6 March 2005:   Share Lent, BME Church, Alliance for Life, Departure
        Notes, Transportation to Mass, Reflections on Lent 4
27 February 2005:   Fr. Paul's Departure, Stewardship & the Commandments 10
        Reflections on Lent 3
20 February 2005:   Brighter Futures, S.A.A.N., Men's Program, Movie "Thérèse",
        O.S Church Improvements, Reflections on Lent 2
13 February 2005:   Reflections on Lent 1, Lenten Devotional Series
6 February 2005:   Fr. Darrin Gurr on Stewardship 3, GBHS Membership
30 January 2005:   Fr. Darrin Gurr on Stewardship 2
        Thanks to St. Mary's Social Services
23 January 2005:   Bishop's Pastoral Letter on Marriage Legislation
        Fr. Darrin Gurr on Stewardship 1
16 January 2005:   Tsunami Relief, Local Needs, Fr. Darrin Gurr
        Stewardship & the Commandments 9
9 January 2005:   Tsunami Relief, Foreign Student, Fr. Darrin Gurr
2 January 2005:   2004 Highlights: Sister Delia, SSND, & Bishop Tonnos
        Stewardship & the Commandments 8
26 December 2004:   Thanks to Parishioners in Owen Sound & Missions
19 December 2004:   The Joy of an Imperfect Christmas, Parish "Tithing"
        PAR Update
12 December 2004:   St. Mary's History XII, Perfume in Church
5 December 2004:   Review of Parish Mission, Thoughts on Healing
28 November 2004:   150th Anniversary Celebration, Christmas Schedule
        Stewardship & the Commandments 7
21 November 2004:   St. Mary's History XI
14 November 2004:   News from the Parish Churches, Letter from Fr. Martin Eke
7 November 2004:   "Walk through the Mass", Parish Mission, 150th Anniversary
        Stewardship & the Commandments 6
31 October 2004:   Cursillo, "Tithing" Committee, Stewardship Responses
        Cemeteries, St. Mary's History X
24 October 2004:   PAR Update, Parish Mission, Stewardship Responses,
        Cemeteries, Stewardship & the Commandments 5
17 October 2004:   Pastor's Cursillo, Screening Committee
10 October 2004:   Pew Moving Bee, Wiarton Appreciation, "Walk through the
        Mass, Stewardship & the Commandments 4
3 October 2004:   Life Chain, Tithing Ourselves, Painting Begins
        Stewardship & the Commandments 3
26 September 2004:   "Walk through the Mass", SSND Celebration, Lectors'
        Workshop, Church Painting Begins, Help Wanted
19 September 2004:   St. Mary's History IX, Golf Day
        Stewardship & the Commandments 2
12 September 2004:   Stewardship & the Commandments 1
5 September 2004:   Mass Schedules, Spirituality of Daily Masses, Somebody
        out there likes us
29 August 2004:   SSND Farewell, Beef Connections, Expostion,
        Parish Councils, St. Mary's History VIII
22 August 2004:   Parish Bulletin, Who's Pastor of What, Exposition of Blessed
        Sacrament, Meeting of Parish Councils, SSND Fest
1 August 2004:   Sister Florence, 7:45 am Weekday Mass
4 July 2004:   Summer Worship, Anniversary Sign, St. Mary's History VII
27 June 2004:   Mission Appeal, St. Mary's History VI, Federal Election
20 June 2004:   Summer Schedule, Mission Appeal, PAR Update
13 June 2004:   SSND Departure: Plans for Commemoration
6 June 2004:   Lectors' Workshop, PAR News, Mission Appeal
30 May 2004:   CWL News, Tuesday Seniors' Group
23 May 2004:   Summer Schedule, More on PAR, "Doors Open"
16 May 2004:   PAR, St. Mary's History V
9 May 2004:   Mother's Day, Support for Pregnancy Crisis Centre
        Project Rachel
2 May 2004:   Local Care Packages, Screening for Staff & Volunteers
25 April 2004:   Fr. Ted Johnson, "Doors Open" Program at St. Mary's,
        St. Mary's History IV
18 April 2004:   The Easter Vigil, Recognition of Altar Servers, Habitat for
        Humanity, support for BME Church
11 April 2004:   Reflections on Easter
4 April 2004:   The Holy Triduum
28 March 2004:   Reflections on Lent, Invitation to the Triduum
21 March 2004:   Share Lent Collection, Pre-Authorized Debit Offertory,
        Cemeteries Board
14 March 2004:   St. Mary's History III
7 March 2004:   Development & Peace in High Schools, Parish Mission,
        Retreat at Strawberry Island
29 February 2004:   Lenten Lunches, World Day of Prayer, Habitat for Humanity,
        Missalettes, Bible Study
22 February 2004:   Lenten Practices, Parish Mission, Photo Directory
15 February 2004:   Preparing for Lent, Ecology Website, Mass Stipends
8 February 2004:   St. Mary's History II
1 February 2004:   Diocesan Tax ("Cathedraticum")
25 January 2004:   Marriage Preparation, Reports to Diocese, People & Government
18 January 2004:   St. Mary's History I, 2003 Financial Report
11 January 2004:   Christmas thanks, Earthquake relief for Iran
4 January 2004:   Baptism & Christian Unity, Recovering Christmas IV
28 December 2003:   Recovering Christmas III, Christmastide Feasts,
        The Gregorian Calendar
21 December 2003:   Recovering Christmas II
14 December 2003:   Recovering Christmas I, Advent Anointing
7 December 2003:   Mission Appeal Report, Advent Services & Reconcilation
        Location of Christmas Crèche
30 November 2003:   Cranes for Peace, Stewardship Reflection #10
23 November 2003:   Knights of Columbus, Stewardship Reflection #9
16 November 2003:   WYD Collection, Salvation Army, CWL Bazaar, Klezmer Christmas
        Stewardship Reflection #8
9 November 2003:   News items from St. Mary's and the Mission Congregations
        Stewardship Reflection #7
2 November 2003:   Parish Mission, Stewardship Reflection #6
26 October 2003:   Parish Mission, Blessing of École-Dominique-Savio
        Stewardship Reflection #5
19 October 2003:   Parish Mission, Madonna House Apostolate
        Stewardship Reflection #4
12 October 2003:   Hepworth Bereft, Chatsworth Mortgage, Parish Mission
        Stewardship Reflection #3
5 October 2003:   Pictorial Directory, Meeting of Parish Councils
        Stewardship Reflection #2
28 September 2003:   Stewardship Reflection #1
21 September 2003:   Support for Hospital Chaplaincy, First Aid & CPR
        Introducing Stewardship
7 September 2003:   Needs of the Canadian Church, Ecumenical Service at Zion-
        Amabel, Meeting of Combined Parish Councils
31 August 2003:   September Events, Day of Recollection, Definition
        of Marriage & the Bishops' Petition
3 August 2003:   Garden Party, Congregational Cup
29 June 2003:   Summer Worshippers, Summer Scheduling
22 June 2003:   Corpus Christi, Mission Preacher, Cranes for Peace
15 June 2003:   3rd-World Mission Appeal, Development & Peace,
        The 9 Principles of Catholic Soclal Teaching
8 June 2003:   Pentecost, Baptisms, Recent Marriages,
        Parish Annual Meeting
1 June 2003:   Catholic Women's League
23 May 2003:   Pictorial Directory Shooting Schedule
18 May 2003:   Bible Study, Pictorial Directory, Parish Councils,
        Jack & Rita Jerome
11 May 2003:   Vocations, Mother's Day, Women's Retreat, Bible Study
4 May 2003:   Confirmation, Bayshore Arena Mass, École-Dominique-
        Savio, Development & Peace
27 April 2003:   Relief for Iraq, Bible Study
20 April 2003:   SARS & the Liturgy
13 April 2003:   Easter Triduum
6 April 2003:   Recent Funerals, Share Lent Collection, Easter Flowers
30 March 2003:   Does Anyone Read this Stuff? Prayer for the Mission,
        Photo Directory Schedule Again
23 March 2003:   Preparing for the Parish Mission, Alternative News
        Sources for Iraq & other Issues
16 March 2003:   Parish Photo Directory Schedule, Lenten Devotions
9 March 2003:   Practical Lenten Spirituality
2 March 2003:   Lent & Forgiveness, Parish Mission, WYD Collection
23 February 2003:   Ecumenism in Tobermory & Lion's Head, Chairlift &
        Hymnboards in Wiarton, Sauble & Hepworth
        Renovations, Retiring Chatsworth's Debt, Meaford
        Sound System, Owen Sound Dishwasher
16 February 2003:   Workshop on Dynamics of Forgiveness, Bringing up
        the Gifts at Mass, Work & Pray for Peace
9 February 2003:   Lay Pastoral Care Ministry, Camp Brébeuf, Parish
        Pictorial Directory, Volunteer Recognition Night
2 February 2003:   Mass Stipends II, Zenit Catholic News Service
26 January 2003:   Mass Stipends I
19 January 2003:   Week of Prayer for Christian Unity,
        Confirmation, the Website
12 January 2003:   Christmas & the Lord's Baptism, Exposition,
        Website Spirituality Link, Br. André
5 January 2003:   Epiphany, Weekly Exposition, Hospital Chaplaincy
        Collection, Choir Concert & Social
22 December 2002:   Christ: Light in the Darkness,
        A final word on Singing, Advent vs. Christmas
15 December 2002:   Jubilee of Sister Bernice, SSND,
        Christmas Liturgies, Location of Chrèche
8 December 2002:   Feast of Christ the King, How and Why Christians Give,
        Missalettes, Anointing of the Sick
24 November 2002:   Chaplaincy Collection, Proclamation Report,
        other Ecumenical Activities, Bereavement
17 November 2002:   Hospital Chaplaincy Collection, Bereavement Service,
        Congregational Singing IV
10 November 2002:   1st Communion & Confirmation, Forgiveness series,
        Exposition & Benediction, Proclamation of the Bible
3 November 2002:   Confirmation, Mary Jo Leddy, Cemeteries,
        Congregational Singing III
27 October 2002:   Reformation Sunday, Beth Ezekiel Synagogue
20 October 2002:   Photo Directory, Anniversary History Book,
        Congregational Singing II
13 October 2002:   Congregational Singing I, Forgiveness Series,
        New Life Retreat
6 October 2002:   St. Basil's School Dedication, "How to Forgive" series,
        Congregational Singing: Introduction
29 September 2002:   Website, Baptism Classes, Seniors' Group
22 September 2002:   WYD Donations, Bible Proclamation
15 September 2002:   Building Funds in O.S & Missions
8 September 2002:   Parish Online, Garage Sale Report, R.C.I.A.

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26 June 2005

Summer is here and with it changes. With priests coming and going there is one change in the daily mass schedule. At least for the month of July and the first two weeks of August there will be no 7:45 am mass in Owen Sound. Right now, the mass is scheduled to begin again in September, but you'll need to await word from Father Paul McGill on exactly when.

With Summer come visitors. Two visitors are scheduled over the coming months. Father Ted Johnson will be back from July 8th to August 8th. In that period of time he will be at Sauble and Hepworth and again back at Sauble on July 9th and 10th. He will be going to Lion's Head and Tobermory on July 23rd and all the masses at Sauble on July 30 and 31st. He will also preside at all the masses in Owen Sound on August 6th and 7th as well as the evening masses at Sauble Beach and whatever weekday masses Father McGill asks of him. I trust he will have a great stay.

The second visitor is a mission preacher for PIME missionaries. He will be preaching in Owen Sound the weekend of July 16th and 17th. This is an annual occurrence here and helps us to remember our call to bring the Gospel to all the nations. There will also be special collections this weekend, especially in Owen Sound, to support PIME missions.

Parting Notes. Well this is the last of my notes to this family of parishes. This weekend I will preside at all the Sunday masses in Owen Sound and then make my way to my parents' place in Grimsby Ontario before heading off to Windsor.

So, for my final words I simply want to say THANK YOU! It would take too long and be too hard to list all the individuals and groups whom I would like to thank. I have been trying to do that in various ways over the past few weeks. Instead I would like to reflect on what gives my heart gratitude as I think back over the past six years.

I think of generations of Basilians who have gone before me especially Father Granottier, Father Roche and Father Lawlor. Their example and faith and service have been an inspiration to me.

I think of all the regular mass-goers and their faith and prayers.

I think of how many of you appreciate these bulletin articles and how much the articles have helped you connect with all our churches.

I think of financial contributors to our parishes. Your faith and generosity has continued to grow by leaps and bounds over the past several years.

I think of all the many committees I served with and how much you have taught me.

I think about people in many and different situations, in pain and in celebration, who have allowed me into their lives and into their. I will treasure you and keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

I think about all the people who serve our parishes in a variety of ways with their time and talents. Thank you for sharing these sacred trusts with God's people.

But most of all, I think about this family of parishes and how much you have taught me over the past six years. You have taught be how to be a pastor. You have encouraged me and cajoled me. You have been forthright and yet caring too. I have been corrected but also affirmed.

I am so thankful that I have had these years with you. I will miss you very much. I will hold you in my heart before God. Please hold me in yours. Or as the bishop says to the newly ordained priest. Oremus pro invicem: "Let us pray for one another."

Father Paul

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19 June 2005

Parting Notes: In my second year as pastor, we held a very successful Ministry Day at Notre Dame Catholic School for our various liturgical ministries. Speakers came from near and far to help us with the day. However, what I remember most clearly is how it began.

Early that morning, after having set up everything the night before, a group of us arrived to find that the school was locked. Someone immediately went home nearby and called the person who was supposed to open up. The rest of us just waited and chatted on a fairly chilly autumn morning.

Someone came up to me, after about ten minutes, and remarked on how I was not flustered; and how I actually seemed to be enjoying myself just talking to people. They thought this quite remarkable considering our guests would be arriving shortly and the place was not open. I downplayed their remark, but later realized that they had hit on something quite important: at that point I was leading not by doing anything but by just being relaxed, by just being myself.

Over the years, I have reflected on that moment and have come to realize more and more deeply what it had to teach me: one of the principal ways I am called to lead is by my spirit. Simply being peaceful or not being driven by fear is a great gift a leader can give. By itself, it can have a calming effect on community. Similarly, joy and patience are equally great gifts as they make people feel better about themselves and more satisfied with what is possible rather than impossible. In short, practicing the fruits of the Spirit can be of greater value to a community than days and days of work.

However, this has led me to reflect that my spirit has not always been guided by the Spirit. At times, more times than I can count, I have been anxious and fearful. I have also been curt and angry. I am sure that I have neglected a number of people over the years because I was too distracted by my own inner fears and hurts. I am sure I have ignored some people and spoken too sharply at times to others. Indeed, I have been a sinner.

So, with this, my second last parting note, I want to say I am sorry for anyone I may have hurt in the past six years. I have tried to express these apologies personally to some of. But I am know I will not have time or ability to speak to all of you before I go. Please accept this simple note as an apology.

You are wonderful people, and at times I have not treated some of you with the respect and honour you deserve. Please accept, on this Father's Day, this Father's apologies and know that if you have done anything requiring my forgiveness, you have it. I want to carry no grudges with me, and pray that I leave none with you.

I pray that I may leave in peace and that you will remain in peace to welcome your new pastor: not with doubts and fears, but rather with open hearts and arms ready to make him feel again at home in the town where he grew up. AMEN!

Father Paul

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12 June 2005

Our Tithing Committee, which distributes a percentage of funds drawn from our offertory to charities in Grey and Bruce, met this past Tuesday. The committee is in the process of establishing initial bylaws on how it will operate.

This year, the finance committee has budgeted 1% of all our offertory collections to distribute to worthy charities in our two counties. This will total about $4800-$5000 depending on what the offertory actually is.

The committee meets again at the beginning of October. If you want input into the committee, speak to members of your parish council and in particular the member of your parish on the committee, namely: Mike Baines (Wiarton), Sharen Kolohon (Sauble Beach), Linda Schnurr (Hepworth), Bob Griffin (Chatsworth) and Norm Valin (Meaford). We are in need of representative for Owen Sound at present. Father Paul McGill, or someone he designates, will be the chair of the committee.

St. Mary's Finance Council had its final meeting before summer on June 1st. Currently there are five members of this council. It would be good if we could get a sixth member. If you would be interested, give me a call before I go.

The most asked question these days: When are you leaving? The actual date is going to be June 26th. I will be in Owen Sound that weekend for each of the masses. Then, some time in the afternoon of the 26th, I'll be leaving. My brother will be in town and we'll drive to my parents' place where I will have a few days before heading off to Assumption Church in Windsor.

Closing Notes: So far I have talked about what I see as the five principal elements of our mission as a church: worship, pastoral care, spiritual life, outreach and community building. In addition, we have what I would consider the supporting ministries: those which make our mission possible. These involve four main elements: leadership, communications, finances and property. Leadership is provided pastorally, administratively and organizationally by the priests and the parish councils and by significant individuals within the life of each of our churches. Communications is covered by parish councils, the parish secretary and again significant individuals in each of our churches. Finances are overseen by two finance council's (one for St. Mary's itself and one for all our churches together) as well as our business office staff. Finally, property tends to be the concern of many groups: our parish councils, our finance councils (insofar as such projects need funds), property committees, significant individuals in our congregations and also those hired as employees or on a contract basis to maintain our properties. In general, these kinds of ministries are given great weight in our various churches. However, I have always been convinced that they are secondary. They support our primary mission which is worship, pastoral care, outreach, spiritual life and community building. Hence, I have tried constantly to see all these ministries of leadership, communications, finances and property as support ministries. They are the foundations upon which the rest of our ministry is built.

In the past couple of years some significant ministries developed to support all our ministries namely stewardship and screening. Stewardship has helped us to understand that the use of our time, talents and treasure are a sacred trust that allows us to achieve our principal mission and which supports our supporting ministries. Stewardship helps us to realize that everything we do with our time and energy, our talents and gifts, and our treasure and finances are part of our response to God and God's goodness to us. Stewardship undergirds and permeates everything we do.

Finally, screening has just slowly started here at St. Mary's but is also extremely important in enhancing all our ministries. Screening is so much more than police checks and references. Rather, it is developing systems of support for all our ministries in the form of position descriptions, training and supervision. Screening is just beginning here, but it is my hope that it will grow strong here and slowly spread to all our churches in time.

These are all exciting developments: we have a strong organization and it will continue to grow. Let us pray that all our supporting ministries will grow in each of our churches, and thus allow us to carry out our mission in the Church and in the world.

Father Paul

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5 June 2005

A subcommittee of our Council of Councils met this past Saturday at Holy Family Church in Sauble Beach to discuss communications among our various churches. It was an excellent gathering in which we shared our perspectives on our strengths and weaknesses, as well as goals and objectives for communications. When the meeting was over we had raised thirteen possible goals (long term targets for the next five years or so) and 13 possible objectives (short term initiatives that could be met within the next year).

Among the goals receiving high support was our desire to operate more as a family of churches who function more as brothers and sisters to each other. The hope of this goal is to become partners or equals in our mission of worship, pastoral care, spiritual growth, outreach and community building. Specifically, this goal may call us to balance where our activities take place: not just in Owen Sound, for example, but in our other churches as well.

One of the objectives receiving very high support at the meeting was the need for a contact roster. Such a roster would allow for a ready reference for contacting the members of our different parish councils as well as the coordinators of our different ministries. It would lessen bottlenecks in communication between our different churches and create better access to each other. Look for the council of councils to achieve this objective some time in the fall after its meeting on October 22nd.

Our Marriage Preparation Team also met this past Saturday and set a date for next year's Marriage Course which will take place on Friday March 31st and Saturday April 1st. The team also welcomed three new members and is looking forward to welcoming Father Paul McGill before too long!

Parting Notes: So far, I have presented four essentials areas of our mission: Worship, Pastoral Care, Spiritual Life, and Outreach. The final essential area of our mission I would have called socializing until recently. However, the CWL rightly raised some concerns about how socializing only seems to signify socials and that they were thus being considered only a social group.

So, that got me thinking: why are socials so important to our church life? What does socializing allow us to do? In short, I realized that the reason for our social life is to build community. Socializing in all our churches is one aspect of what do to build a sense of community and belonging. So are communications. So are a number of ministries we perform to reach out and welcome people into our midst. Together, this wide ranging group of activities is community building.

Community building is done in a variety of ways in our different churches. In smaller parishes, community building is done in conjunction with other Christians and community organizations. It is also done informally before and after mass in all of our churches. Some churches also organize a time for tea and coffee after mass, or juice and sweets. Such simple actions! Nevertheless, they allow us to build bridges, make connections and become community.

The CWL and the Knights of Columbus do much for building community. The ministries they perform, the spiritual and outreach activities and the socials build a sense of belonging in our churches. In developing sorority and fraternity they develop networks of friendship and service, in other words, community.

This weekend, one member of our parish in Owen Sound is announcing her intention for forming a Bowling Night in the fall and winter for our churches. Rosemarie Short contacted the local bowling alley and found that the lone night available for a league during the year is Wednesday evening. So, she has the alley tentatively reserved for a league. The question is: can we then find about 50 people in all our churches to make this a fun activity for our churches during the dreariness of winter? Who knows? But should it succeed we would have strengthened bonds among us and built community. [There will also be a second go-round at the beginning of August to see if there is any more interest. Anyone wanting to know more about this initiative is welcome to contact Rosemarie at 371-8576.]

Community building is very important, indeed essential to our lives of faith. Most churches that are growing in North America are doing so precisely because they understand the importance of building this sense of connections and belonging. There is always more to do. I hope in the years to come we will develop an ever deeper and better sense of community within our churches and among them!

Father Paul

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29 May 2005

As the weeks roll down (and there are but four weeks left to June 26th), I am finding it harder and harder to do something I usually find quite easy: namely, to concentrate. My mind is constantly going back and forth over a whole series of questions like: what to bring with me and what to leave behind and what to give away? what do I need to tell Father Paul McGill? what do I need to communicate with various committees and individuals in our churches? with whom do I still need to arrange a goodbye? And of course there are all the comparable questions about Windsor and responsibilities that will be mine there in less than five weeks.

However, for me perhaps the most pressing question is what can I continue to do for St. Mary's and what do I need to leave for Father Paul to do? As time goes on, the list of things I can do gets smaller and smaller. I want to continue working until the end, but the number of tasks I can both begin and finish are decreasing rapidly. So, what can I do?

I can continue to do all the basics of being a parish priest: presiding at masses, funerals, baptisms and the few marriages that are left for me here. I am available for the sacrament of reconciliation and anointing the sick as needed too. Also, I'm available also to start planning marriages and baptisms that take place later on.

Otherwise, my principal emphasis is on finishing tasks and leaving things in a state that can be reasonably picked up by Father Paul McGill. With each committee in which I work, I'm asking people to think of a building heads up list for Father Paul, answering questions like: what needs to be done next? what are we in the middle of doing? What major tasks are out there? Father Paul can do with those lists what he wishes. But having them will start him off on a good track. So, if you're on a committee or ministry of which I am not a (regular) member, think about putting together your own heads up list for him. I think he'll appreciate it.

By the way, Father Paul McGill is planning to be here in a couple of weekends for a visit. Don't be too surprised then when he celebrates one of the masses here in Owen Sound on the weekend of June 11th and 12th. However, it's just a quick visit to get the lay of the land. He'll be here on duty as of July 1st.

Parting Notes: So, far I've reflected on three essential aspects of our parish communities: worship, pastoral care and spiritual life. A fourth essential aspect of our lives as Christian Community is outreach or service to people in the wider community, both in our immediate neighbourhood and around the world.

All of our churches are involved in this kind of outreach as individuals and groups of people. All are involved in Development and Peace to a greater or lesser extent. Some are involved in Food for Children and other comparable initiatives. All also participate in outreach to those in need in our communities.

Still, outreach is an area of our church life that we need to revisit constantly and constantly keep in our prayers. Twenty Five to thirty years ago, this community of parishes was a model of outreach in our community. In particular, our churches sponsored refugees and actively helped the financially needy in our community throughout the year through our social services committee. However, we did not maintain those glory days. As a community of parishes we need to revisit needs and what we can do about them. We need to reassess what families and individuals need to be healthy and vibrant and what our role in helping them achieve that may be.

Finally, outreach constantly opens us to working ecumenically and with the greater community. Most of the needs we see are simply beyond our abilities working on our own. We need to find interested and helping partners in other churches, people of faith and people of good will everywhere. As Jesus reminded us, "the harvest is plenty and labourers are few." Let us pray for more labourers, including ourselves.

Father Paul

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22 May 2005

A Rally in Support of Traditional Marriage is taking place this Monday, May 23rd from 12 noon to 2 PM at Queen's Park. Bishop Lacy will be speaking at the rally, as well as speakers from various other faiths. The Knights of Columbus will also be out in number. This will likely be the final large rally before the 3rd reading of the current legislation, or a Federal Election. Let us support it with our prayers, and if possible, our presence as well.

Correction from Last Week: One observant person noted that I had a mistake in the mass schedule I printed last week. Mass at Tobermory is always at 5 PM on Saturday afternoon. From now until Thanksgiving, there is a mass each Saturday at Tobermory at 5 PM and at Lion's Head at 11 AM.

Parting Notes: A third principal area of our life as a parish is our Spiritual Life, or our life of prayer and prayerful reflection on the Gospel. This absolutely vital aspect of our lives in faith, begins with each of our lives of prayer and reflection on the Gospel. None of us is excused from this most important work of praising, thanking, seeking, beseeching and longing for God. All of us are called to spend time each day talking to God, reflecting on God's love and faithfulness, seeking God's will and placing all our needs and hopes into God's hands.

However, all of us need help in this vital area of our lives. That is why, from time to time we have missions, retreats, workshops and days of recollection. That is why we have a Spiritual Life Committee to help organize these various events that help to strengthen our faith and our prayer lives.

Also of help in this area of our lives are a variety of activities and devotions in our parishes including the recitation of the Rosary, the daily recitation of the Angelus in Owen Sound, the Cenacle devotions (at Hepworth and Chatsworth), and the exposition of the Blessed Sacrament (the first Saturday after the 9:00 AM Mass at St. Mary's, Owen Sound ‹ and the 2nd and 4th Wednesdays of the month at St. Mary's in Hepworth beginning at 7 PM). Devotions led by the Knights and the CWL also are a great help in this area, as is Cursillo.

Another area which is also related to our Spiritual Life is our reflection on the Gospel. Bible study has taken hold in Wiarton and Owen Sound, as well as a small group who gets together on Tuesdays after the 12:05 mass to reflect on the coming Sunday's Gospel. There are also a group of people who have been taking a course at Hanover for the last two years. Such sustained reflection and study is also part of our developing Spiritual Life.

My hope for this family of parishes is that you would continue to grow spiritually and that occasions for prayer and reflection may become more and more frequent in the years to come. A mission is already scheduled for next November. Also, plans are afoot to bring Life in the Spirit back next spring (with the Father McGill's blessing of course).

But clearly, Spirituality is a lifelong project and what is planned for next year can only just be the beginning. May God give you the grace to pursue your vocation of prayer and reflection both as individuals and as communities of faith. May you find the resources you need here among you, and may God grace you with many gifts and blessings.

Father Paul

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15 May 2005

Can Summer be far? Next week is Victoria Day weekend. That means a few changes will occur in our mass schedule. For the long weekend itself, we will have the following mass schedule. See notes below for differences in the schedule for the weeks thereafter.

      Owen Sound    Saturday 5 PM    Sunday 9 AM & 11 AM
      Sauble Beach    Saturday 5 PM    Sunday 9 AM & 11 AM
      Lion's Head    Saturday 11 AM
      Tobermory    Saturday 5 PM
      Wiarton    Saturday 7 PM    Sunday 10:45 AM
      Hepworth    Sunday 8:45 AM
      Chatsworth    Sunday 9:00 AM
      Meaford    Sunday 11:00 AM

1. Sauble Beach has three masses on long weekends: Victoria Day Weekend, Canada Day Weekend, Civic Holiday Weekend, Labour Day Weekend & Thanksgiving. From Canada Day to Thanksgiving other than long weekends there is also an ll AM Mass.

2. From Victoria Day to Canada Day Sauble Beach has just the 5 PM mass, and then again the Sundays in between Labour Day and Thanksgiving..

3. Lion's Head and Tobermory return to having weekly masses at these times until Thanksgiving.

4. Wiarton returns to just the 10:45 mass on Sunday until Canada Day when the 7 PM returns weekly until Labour Day, and then one last time for Thanksgiving.


Parting Notes: Last week, I wrote about Liturgy in our community of churches. A second area of our lives together as communities of faith is Pastoral Care. This refers to a wide area of ministries for those members of our congregations with special needs. They include adults entering the Catholic Church, new parishioners, families with children to baptized, children receiving first communion, young people to be confirmed, youth, couples preparing for marriage, the sick and infirm who cannot get to church, and those who are bereaved.

These ministries are performed in a variety of ways in our different churches. In some of our smaller churches some ministries are done informally by members of the church as they welcome new members, comfort the bereaved and visit the sick and infirm. Others are done by individuals who have formally volunteered and been asked to prepare young people for the sacraments and bring communion to the sick. Our Catholic schools prepare children for confirmation, communion and reconciliation. There are ministry teams that serve all our churches: the RCIA team and the marriage preparation team. Owen Sound also has a few formal ministries to handle welcoming new parishioners, and bring communion to the sick. Of course, a number of these ministries are done in different ways by our priests either one on one, special liturgies or in combination with any of the above groups of individuals and teams.

I have a few hopes for these ministries. Namely:

  • that we will be able to follow diocesan guidelines and have all ministers screened, especially those who minister to the weak and vulnerable.
  • that we can become evangelizing communities (ie communities that invite our neighbours, friends and even acquaintances into our midst to share in the good news and become one with us)
  • that we will draw young families into the life of the church and make them as welcome as possible.

I know these are not only my hopes. I have heard them often in our churches. May God hear these and all our prayers for those with special needs in our midst.

Father Paul

8 May 2005

Parting Notes: Over the next few weeks, I would like to go over many of the more day-to-day aspects of life in our parishes. In doing so, I want to affirm what I have appreciated about this family of churches and the way we do things. I may also mention one or two areas for possible growth in the future. However, as with all advice, you can take it or leave it as you choose.

The first area I would like to talk about is liturgy or worship. This is by far the most basic and the most important event in our lives as churches. It is also, by far, what I most enjoy about our life together. Each of our churches has a very rich life of worship. From the smallest to the largest congregations each put forth their best gifts in worship. People are warmly greeted as they enter, and ushers are there to help them as needed. Congregations sing. Readings are well read. Ministers of communion and servers are reverent. There is a deep sense in all of our churches of the importance of what is happening among us: God speaks to us; Christ comes to us; and we become his Body given for others and his Blood poured out in love.

In my years here, I have especially appreciated the role of sacristans in our churches. It is so good to walk into those churches and find that everything has been set up for the celebration: the gifts have been put on their table; the altar is ready; everything is in its place. In some churches even the sacramentary (the book of prayers) has been set for the day. It's such a wonderful feeling as a presider to know that you can focus on what you are there to do: to enter into the prayer of the church, to be conscious of how that prayer moves within and among us, and to guide that prayer according to the ritual and the needs of the congregation. Being freed of details, the presider or priest can focus on what is going on in our hearts as a worshipping community. The sacristan, who in one of our churches is actually the lector, helps free the priest to preside.

My hopes for our churches in worship are many and few. On the many end of things, I hope each continues to grow in worship in every way possible: I hope lectors continue to improve their skills; I hope more people come forth to serve; I hope for an ever greater warmth of welcome in our churches; and an ever deeper sense of the mystery of Christ's presence.

On the few end of things, I have two particular hopes: that each of our churches would foster the gifts of teenagers at worship. Not all young people will want to be lectors and servers. But there are a variety of gifts: ushers, communion ministers, music, hospitality, and sacristans. I am hopeful that many will put their gifts at the service of others in worship.

Another hope is small but significant: I am hopeful that we may be able to find a way to have communion from the cup in all our churches, and that more of us would feel free to receive from the cup. This is something that the church is urging us to do more and more, as receiving both Christ's Body and Blood gives us a more complete sign of the sacrificial meal which Christ left us as a remembrance of his life giving death and resurrection. In order for this to happen we may need more ministers of communion and, perhaps, communion trays with individual servings of communion for those who have concerns with disease. We will also need patience, to allow communion to go more slowly, because as more and more of us receive from the cup this extremely important moment in the liturgy will slow down ­ and that is good. It is not something to be rushed through quickly. It is the centre and focus of what we are doing. Let's do it slowly and reverently. Christ's presence among us is the gift of gifts. Slowness and reverence will express that.

Annual Meeting for St. Mary's in Owen Sound takes place next Saturday evening, May 14th from 7:30 to 9:30. All are welcome to attend especially newcomers to the parish. It will be a good opportunity to meet more seasoned members of the parish, to talk about the church we love and to enjoy some food and drink in the company of friends. Come one, come all! See the (Owen Sound) insert in the bulletin for more details.

Father Paul

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1 May 2005

First Communions are now upon us. Yesterday, April 30th, the children from École St. Dominique received their first Communion. Today the children from local public schools are making theirs. Children from St. Basil's School will make their first communion this coming Saturday. I expect a few other children to be making their first communion at various mission churches in the coming weeks. We offer each of these children our prayers and blessings as they enter into communion with us and with the Lord.

When Bishop Crosbie was here, he asked the young people to be confirmed, "what was the second sacrament?" The answer he received from them was "Holy Communion." However, he then told them that Communion is not the second sacrament. It is the third sacrament. This left a few young people (and adults) puzzling since clearly they had received Communion long before Confirmation.

Bishop Crosbie reminded them that for most the history of the church, Confirmation was celebrated before Communion. It was only about 100 years ago that Pius X permitted children of 7 years of age to receive Communion. Thus he instituted a change of practice. For nineteen hundred years, Catholics were baptized, confirmed and then made their first communion. Since then, in most countries, we have switched the order.

The order of the sacraments is important in that Communion is the culmination of incorporation into the church, not Confirmation. Confirmation is closely connected with Baptism in that it confers the fullness of the Spirit already received in Baptism. It does not, however, bring one's initiation to an end; rather, our incorporation into weekly and regular reception of the Eucharist completes one's initiation and encourages ongoing formation in the life and practice of being church.

That is why, if you read the Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC) you will note that Confirmation is discussed immediately after Baptism and immediately before the Eucharist. Weekly worship at Eucharist ratifies and fulfills our initiation. Thus First Communion, is only the beginning of one's connection to this sacrament. What happens on this day is no mere coming of age. It is, instead, the beginning of a whole life of worship, in which one's life is constantly wrapped up in the mystery of this sacrament week in and week out. This is the beginning of a life process and commitment. Those who approach this sacrament without that intention are missing something vital to the meaning of this celebration.

Meetings this week: Just a reminder to two of our sub-committees: the Cemeteries Committee is scheduled to meet this Tuesday at 7 pm in the Parish Council Room at St. Mary's in Owen Sound. The Tithing Committee meets on Wednesday at 7 pm in the Rectory Dining Room.

Parting Notes: I think I would add one other element of vision to those put together by our Council of Councils. In addition to Communications, Shared Programming, Lay Leadership and Hospitality to Youth and Young Families I would add Spirituality. I would add this for two reasons: one, it is a burning concern for many of our parishioners; two, it is also a deep passion of my own.

I very much think that many of the deepest concerns of the church these days are concerns about Spirituality. When Pope Benedict was announced, I heard people tell me how right he was for the times; others told me how deeply concerned they were that he was chosen. The reactions did not surprise me, because I think both reactions develop out of different spiritualities.

In one spirituality, we submit ourselves totally to the will of God especially as that will is manifest in the visible authorities of the church; namely the Pope, the Bishops and the authorized rituals of the church. For these people, spirituality is an act of total self-giving in obedience to God's will. They recognize that the authorities of Church help bring clarity to our perception of that will, and thus the key to spirituality is obedience to these visible authorities.

In the other spirituality, more emphasis is given to each person's interaction with scripture. One is also bound to total self-giving. However, this spirituality emphasizes that such total self-giving is not possible without maturity in faith, hope and love. Furthermore, this maturity in faith, hope and love is achieved by many and different paths. It cannot be strictly mandated or regulated. So, this spirituality tends to emphasize the importance of freedom, conscience and the fundamental obligations of equality and respect.

These two spiritualities need not be in tension, because the Gospel calls us to both communion and individual faith. A sound spirituality requires respect for both pulls. However, few of us can bring these soundly together. I have seen it as both a personal objective in my own life, and at the core of my ministry as a priest to bring both these voices together. I see them as at the heart of my own life as a Christian and my ministry as a priest. I hope in that way, that they have been at the core of my own gift of self to you.

Father Paul

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24 April 2005

Parting Notes: The fourth element of vision which we discussed at the Council of Council Meetings was hospitality: namely, making our churches more hospitable or friendly to youth and young families. At our meeting in September, the concern in this area was unanimous. What was not clear, was how to proceed.

However, we should be first aware of some of the initiatives that have taken place in the past several years. The Knights of Colombus began youth dances a few years ago at their hall. These have become highly popular with young people from Notre Dame and the younger students at St. Mary's. It is an example of one thing that works: finding an activity that young people enjoy to do together and making that possible.

Also, a number of our churches have done well at recognizing our youth with outings like Attack games or movies. This shows us a minimal we can all do: recognize and thank the youth and young people who are already contributing to our churches by their presence and service!

Another development was put together by the School Advisory Council at St. Basil's. They have monthly gatherings after each of the masses at St. Mary's in Owen Sound. This has been a wonderful opportunity for families with young children to socialize and get to know each other better. It has also made a firmer link between church and school.

The resurrected Garden Party at St. Mary's is also an example of an activity that draws young families together. It's just a single day, but it's an opportunity to have fun for the littlest members of our church. (Older people seem to enjoy the day too!)

A first attempt was made at St. Mary's Parish to start something up for high school students. As yet, this initiative has not really gotten off the ground. However, just the attempt has raised awareness about one specific group of young people in our churches: those who live outside of Owen Sound and can find it challenging to get together with friends.

Obviously, there is more that is being done and more that needs to be done. What is ultimately required? Myself, the words I would use are "greater generosity." We often call ourselves generous and at times we are. But the gospel notion of generosity is complete and total self-giving in the service of others. In other words, until we have given everything that we are and have in this life, we still need to grow in generosity. Clearly, youth won't be the only recipients of our generosity: but even so, growing in hospitality will mean ultimately imitating Christ's selfless generosity in total self giving. To be present and hospitable to our youth and young families will require similar selflessness from us: not merely giving the crumbs of what is left over, but giving of our substance in the use of our time, talent and, yes, treasure too!

A Fall Prevention Program: Well-aged actors are wanted for "Stay on your Feet" Music Theatre. There's an information and recruiting session on Thursday April 28th, 2005 from 10 to 11:30 AM at the Harrison Park Senior's Centre in Owen Sound. I have distributed pink information sheets to our different churches if you want more info. Or you can call Joan Chandler at 534-3039.

Two Notes for St. Mary's in Owen Sound: St. Mary's has scheduled its Parish Annual Meeting for Saturday May 14th in the evening from 7:30 to 9:30. The format will be different than in years past. A report will be distributed with the bulletin a week before. All are then invited to the Meeting which will be a wine and cheese, come and go occasion. If you have questions and concerns you'll be able to bring them up one-on-one with the members of the council and various committees. If you don't, you can still relax and socialize with your fellow parishioners. Look for notices in the coming weeks.

Also, two new Parish Council members are needed for St. Mary's Church in Owen Sound. Nominations are open from now until Monday, May 16th. You may nominate yourself (if you do so, please sign your name) or another member of the parish. Nominations can be put in the collection or delivered to the parish office. Put on the outside of envelope: "Nomination for Parish Council." New Council members will be announced on the last Sunday of May.

Father Paul

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17 April 2005

"Where are you going?" This has certainly been the question which people have been asking me since I announced that I would be leaving at the end of June. Well, now I am able to tell you that I am going to Assumption Church in Windsor, next to the University of Windsor (as well as the Detroit River and the Ambassador Bridge). My principal responsibilities will be as pastor and everything which that entails, beginning July 1st. I am looking forward also to being associated with Basilians at Assumption University, which is the Catholic presence at the University. The combination of both, serving as a pastor but doing that within a university environment, is the main reason that I have accepted this position in the first place.

560 CFOS is recording the 9 and 11 am masses at St. Mary's in Owen Sound this weekend. If you are interested in hearing what they record, tune in next Sunday just after the 9 am news. Even better, tell your friends about it, so that they can hear what goes on when Catholics worship on Sunday.

Cursillo: In October last year, I received a great grace: I made a Cursillo at Deemerton with the men of our diocese. At first, I was not sure what to expect. I worried that it might be overly emotional. I worried that the schedule would be too heavy without breaks and without time to think and pray on my own. But as it turned out, my fears were unfounded. Instead, it was a wonderful experience.

In my own case, I went into the Cursillo asking God to help me to discern whether I should accept the invitation to move to Windsor or not. As the weekend went on, I felt that God was inviting me to accept this move as a grace and a cross. It would be a grace, because I heard again and again that I should trust the gifts I have been given and to put them at the service of others as well as possible. This was very much in line with a sense I had felt for some that Windsor would allow me to use gifts I have not been able to use as much here. However, it would also be a cross, mostly because it would mean leaving you to whom I have become quite attached. Even so, I grew to appreciate that in accepting this cross there would be new life both for me and for you!

I invite you then to make a Cursillo yourself next fall. There are both men's and women's Cursillo's scheduled for that time of year. Pick up a brochure at mass today which should be available at the door of the church. Consider giving yourself this time away from your day to day lives. I do not know what God will want to say to you. Nevertheless, I pray that God will call you to greater service in our family of churches.

Parting Notes #3. This Sunday is often called Good Shepherd Sunday, because the Gospel is always taken from the 10th Chapter of John's Gospel in which Jesus declares: "I am the good shepherd." In this chapter, Jesus tells us that he is the good shepherd because he lays down his life for us. In this way, he shows us the way that we are all to follow: we too are to lay down our lives in love and in service for one another.

Too often we narrowly associate this reading with only priests and religious sisters, i.e., the people who pastor us. What we often miss is that all of us, in one way or another, are called to have a shepherd's heart for our church. Each of us is called to imitate the good shepherd. Each of us is to develop Christ's love for the church and in our own way lay down our lives for our friends, our brothers and sisters in Christ. The invitation today is put forth to all of us.

This notion that all of us are called to pastor the church is very much in tune with the third element of vision put forward at the Council of Councils (the meeting of representatives of all our parish councils) in March: developing lay leadership. However, what has struck me most since becoming pastor is how the work of developing lay leaders is done by God. I have been constantly impressed by the leaders whom God has raised up for us: not only in seeing to bricks and mortar (though those things are important to) but also in raising up people who are tending to our lives as communities of faith. Most impressive to me have been the people who have served on parish pastoral councils in our different churches and those who shepherd us all through Sunday mass, week in and week out as liturgical ministers. There are also those who have stepped forward to serve us on the Spirituality Committee as well as those who are fostering adult religious education in our churches through courses and bible study.

Two initiatives in particular were simply placed in my lap. One has been Stewardship at St. Mary's, in which members of this parish came to me and asked to start this up. Their initiative has been a real grace; it's lay leadership in practice. However, in my own mind there was also something missing from Stewardship: a deep sense of its spirituality. I learned that spirituality on Cursillo. I came to realize last year that Cursillo presents us with the heart of Stewardship: which is to develop a servant's heart for God and for the Church. In my mind, Stewardship provides a lot of the nuts and bolts of lay leadership in our churches, but Cursillo informs our hearts and calls us to lay down our lives in service.

Father Paul

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10 April 2005

Remembering Pope John Paul II. The past two weeks, I reflected on the significance of the Second Sunday of Easter as Mercy Sunday. Pope John Paul had declared this to be Mercy Sunday when he celebrated the canonization of Sister Faustina, a Polish nun who popularized this devotion. It is therefore significant that Pope John Paul II died moments after the mass for the Second Sunday of Easter had been celebrated in his room. Though still Saturday, he had already begun to celebrate Mercy Sunday. He finished his celebration of that feast by entrusting himself to that same mercy in death.

It was also edifying to receive condolences from local Christians. Central Westside United Church sent us formal condolences last weekend, as did Rev. Bob Giuliano. Bob also joined us for mass on Sunday morning at St. Mary's in Owen Sound as did Rev. Gary Parker of Meaford the night before at the 5 pm mass in Owen Sound. We are being held up in the prayers of many Christians. May God bless them for their kindness and love.

Father Gerry Gregoire, pastor of this parish during the 1970s, passed away in Shanghai this past weekend. He had been on a tour of China at the time. Please remember him in your prayers.

Confirmation takes place this coming Saturday, April 16th. Please keep our confirmandi (those to be confirmed) in your prayers. May the Spirit of the Risen Jesus fill them with a deep conviction of God's love for them and God's love for all people. May the gifts and fruits of the Spirit be manifest in their lives. May they be witnesses to God's presence among us in all that they do and in simply being who they are!

It is also useful for each of us to reflect for a moment on the grace of this sacrament in our lives. Our Catholic teaching tells us that in Confirmation we receive the fullness of the Holy Spirit. This Spirit comes to us from God, through Jesus. In turn, it forms us into the image of Jesus, and icon of Christ's presence in the world. Thus, this sacrament is at the heart of our entire Christian life, teaching us how to pray, molding us into servants of God and witnesses to the life of the resurrection in our midst.

So, as we pray for our young people, let us also pray for ourselves that the grace of this sacrament may be more clearly manifest in everything we say and do and everything that we are. Let us pray also for the members of our community, especially adults, who were never confirmed. May we as a community of faith attract them to this sacrament by our Spirit-filled lives!

Sacrament of the Sick is now regularly offered on the third Saturday of the month after the 9 am mass in Owen Sound. However, this month, because of Confirmation, we will delay our communal celebration of the Sacrament of the Sick by one week to Saturday, April 23. Anyone in need of healing for either physical or psychological infirmities is invited to receive this sacrament, especially those whose lives are threatened.

Parting Notes #2: The second vision piece that our Council of Councils set for itself in March was "shared programming". We did not define this element of our vision, but we did describe ways in which we are already implementing it. For example, through our shared finances we support our priests and their ministry to us. We thought the Finance Council, in which representatives from our different churches meet, as a good example of shared programming in which we discuss and discern things together. Another example would be our new Tithing Committee which discerns local charities to support. This year we are setting aside 1% of our total offertory, twice as much as we did last year, to support these local initiatives. We have also attempted to develop a shared program through our Spirituality Committee; however, to date this committee has been comprised mainly of St. Mary's Church in Owen Sound, St. Mary's in Hepworth and Holy Family in Sauble Beach. It meets next on April 21st in Owen Sound. It looks like we will have a new representative from Meaford at this meeting. It would be great if we could get representation from Chatsworth and Wiarton too (and Lion's Head and Tobermory)!

I am hopeful that as the years go on more such shared initiatives will develop. Each of our churches will definitely still have its own programs and events. But some sharing will also strengthen our bonds as a family of churches.

Father Paul

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3 April 2005

Mercy Sunday: Recently, I read a little book written by one of our confreres, Father George Kosicki, CSB, on the significance of today's feast. I found two things quite helpful in his book. First, he reminded me that the Sunday after Easter is actually the culmination of 10+ days of celebrating beginning with Holy Thursday. This feast, and today is a feast, gathers up these several days of celebration and puts an exclamation point on them. Just as the closing event of the Olympics sums up the previous days of competition and reminds us what the Olympics are supposed to be all about, so does today sum up all the past several days and remind us of what they mean to us.

Second, by being called "Mercy" Sunday, today reminds us why Christ suffered, died and rose again: namely, to communicate God's mercy to us all. Put another way, this Sunday reminds us that if God's mercy is the reason for the Paschal Mystery (Christ's Passion, Death and Resurrection) then God's mercy is much greater and wonderful than we can possibly imagine. It is so much more than God saying the words, "I forgive you." In the Paschal Mystery, God's mercy liberates us to live beyond death to see into the extraordinary future God has in store for us where death no longer holds power. God's mercy literally transforms us and all creation in the Christ. May we lay hold of this mercy today, and begin to comprehend what God has begun to do for us in initiating us into Christ's death and resurrection through the sacraments, especially Baptism and the Eucharist.

Marriage Preparation Course: This coming Friday evening and Saturday we are holding our marriage course. These courses were begun by Father Pat Parkin several years ago and have continued on an annual basis ever since. This year we have nineteen couples signed up, the most we have had in many years. Most of these will be married at St. Mary's or one of our other churches. However, there are three or four couples from elsewhere. Please keep them and the marriage preparation team in your prayers especially from 7 to 10 on Friday and 10 to 6 on Saturday.

Confirmation for our churches takes place on Saturday April 16th. Bishop Douglas Crosby from the Dioceses of Labrador-Schefferville and St. George's will confirm our young people. Please keep them in your prayers over these final few weeks of their time of preparation.

Parting Notes: Over the next thirteen Sundays, my last thirteen here, I would like to offer some parting notes. I have so deeply appreciated my time here, and would like to share with everyone my gratitude. So, part of what I want to do is to say thank you to you. But, I also want to make some closing observations and reflections. I figure that is part of my role: to share with you some of the things you have taught me.

One of the most gratifying developments in the past years has been our meeting of the Council of Councils, representing our six parishes councils as well as parishioners from Tobermory and Lion's Head. This group has slowly been developing a vision for our shared life and ministry as a family of parishes. At their most recent meeting on March 12th, we came up with four elements of a vision: Communications, Shared Programming, Lay Leadership and Hospitality — especially to youth and young families. Each of these elements needs to be fleshed out. We began by looking at communications and developing a vision statement which says:

Through Communications we will understand our different communities both individually and as a whole and we will develop connections that will allow us to operate as a family of churches that are in close communion with one another.

Each of our different Parish Councils will discuss aspects of this statement at either their April or May meetings. A subcommittee will meet on Saturday May 28th, to begin to put together a list of recommendations to begin to put this agenda into action. A full meeting of the Council of Councils will meet on Saturday October 22nd in Meaford to continue this work.

Father Paul

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27 March 2005

Christ is Risen! Truly He is Risen! In our culture, when we want to say "hi" or "hello", we just say "hi" or "hello". We would not think of having a completely different greeting for someone we meet during the Easter Season. But millions of Christians do just that, especially among our Orthodox brothers and sisters and Eastern Rite Catholics. When they greet each other in the street they say: "Christ is Risen", and the other person responds: "Truly He is Risen!" For me, this is an extremely significant gesture. It says that the resurrection is an intimate part of everyday life. It says that even the simplest greetings we make to each other have been affected by the fact that Christ is risen from the dead. The resurrection changes everything.

The resurrection changes everything because it reminds us that death does not have the final word. Most of us, whether we can articulate it or not, live as if death does have the final word. We live in fear of our limits as creatures. For example, we avoid letting go of things we don't need. We hold on to them long after they are useful to us. Why do we have to have more stuff than we can possibly make use of? Aren't we afraid of our limits, not having everything we could possibly need? Can't we simply accept that we will never be able to acquire on our own everything we will need? More importantly, can't we trust that God will take care of us, despite our limits.

That is the heart of our faith in the resurrection. It is not a belief that we are immortal. It is a rather the act of trusting that whatever happens, God will be there. Whether we lose our job or a loved one or our very own lives, God will still be there. Loss and death do not have the final word: beyond loss and death there is always God. Beyond loss and death, God is there to hold us and rescue and love us and forgive us! This is what we proclaim when we say: Christ is Risen!

Mercy Sunday: The resurrection is also a declaration that sin does not have the final word. Too often we believe just the opposite. We find ourselves stuck in patterns of sinfulness, from simple back-biting to behaviours that are extremely addictive. We think we can break free of these patterns ourselves, especially more common sins like gossip and impatience. However, experience and honesty eventually tell us that we are completely powerless over any kind of sinfulness. Once patterns of sinfulness are at work within us, we cannot get out of them on our own. Most of us become discouraged. Or we just give up. We say: "If nothing I do will make any difference, why fight it?"

The resurrection however says to us at this moment, that we are not stuck in our sins. Even in the midst of our sinfulness, we discover that there is a merciful and loving presence that has never abandoned us. Sin is not the final word. Though our sins pin us down, enslave us and kill us, Christ is there. Where we expected to find futility and slavery and death, we have found one who loves us, whom we cannot dispatch or get rid of. Christ is risen as forgiveness and mercy!

This is in part why Pope John Paul II has declared the eighth day after Easter Sunday to be Mercy Sunday. Mercy Sunday is the end of our eight day celebration of the solemnity of Easter. On this day, as it were, we look back over the preceding celebrations of Holy Thursday, Good Friday, the Easter Vigil and the days of Easter thus far. We look back at them and realize, perhaps for the first time, that there is something beyond death. Just like Thomas, we realize that our cynicism does not have the last word. Like Mary Magdalen, we are no longer stuck in our sorrow. Like Simon Peter, we realize that even our betrayal of Jesus is not the end of the story. Christ is risen! Christ is present as mercy and forgiveness!

Thus, Mercy Sunday, next Sunday, is a kind of vista from which we can begin to realize the wonderful things that have begun today. It will be, as if, we find ourselves on high ground, overlooking the path we have just traveled. From this higher vantage point, as we will be able to see everything that God has done for us in Jesus. Then, we will begin to see that death and sin do not have the last word. Beyond them is new life in Christ; there is, as the 130th psalm tells us: mercy and redemption.

Christ is Risen! Truly he is Risen!

Father Paul

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20 March 2005

Good Friday Collection for the Holy Land: This Friday, as every year, our collection goes to support the church in the Holy Land. Specifically, it supports the upkeep of the holy places and the needs of the church there, such as the education of seminarians and outreach to those in need.

This collection joins us, in a very practical way, with the church in the land where Jesus and the apostles walked. In giving to it, we become part of those committed to proclaiming the Gospel where Jesus did likewise. The collection supports 330 missionaries, 22 parishes, 16 schools, 4 pilgrim "casas", 3 educational establishments, 1 publisher, 460 apartments for needy families and 100 University scholarships.

As the Commissary of the Holy Land in Canada, Father Edouard Otis, ofm, wrote in his annual report: "The Church in the Holy Land still suffers and just like at the time of St. Paul, we must count on the sharing of goods in order to lend a helping hand to the Church in the Holy Land who is in need."

Memories of Martin: This Friday evening at 10 pm, Vision TV has a one hour documentary on the life of an extraordinary Canadian priest, Father Martin Royackers, SJ, who was murdered in his rectory in Annotto Bay, Jamaica. Father Martin grew up in Parkhill, Ontario right beside Father Ted Johnson's family farm. The news release from Vision TV describes him: "To parishioners, he was the rare sort of priest who didn't mind getting his hands dirty. Royackers helped to establish a co-operative for local farmers and laboured right alongside them, fueled by coffee and cigarettes. He saw to it that local schools had recreation equipment and facilities. His Toyota pickup truck doubled often as a bus and ambulance for locals. And it served as a hearse after the funeral service . . . Shortly after his murder, members of the community created a makeshift shrine in his memory. On the spot where Royackers died, they placed a rough wooden cross, a bottle of Red Stripe beer and a pack of Craven A cigarettes." Father James Webb, SJ said, "If you stayed around long enough to realize his compassion, his goodness, his zeal, his passion about life and what was right and truth . . . you would see, as some have said, a diamond in the rough."

Food Issues in Owen Sound: With the soup kitchen about to close down, many members of our community are concerned about addressing food needs here. This Wednesday, March 23rd from 3 to 5 pm, at the Owen Sound Public Library Auditorium there is a special meeting of those who share concerns about things like a soup kitchen; or helping our neighbours to get healthy, affordable food; or the resources in our community or beyond that we can mobilize to help out. Everyone is welcome. They tell us that healthy food will be available.

Lenten Reflections #6: As Lent draws to a close, we are drawn to the final moments of Jesus' life and remember what he said and did. We also embrace his death and resurrection as realities to which we are also called to enter. Thus, the liturgies of Holy Thursday, Good Friday, Holy Saturday and Easter Sunday celebrate the reason for the season of Lent: Christ's death and resurrection. I invite you to come to these liturgies and drink deeply of the Word of God, the sacraments we celebrate, the music and the rituals. There is so much to feed our souls here!

For example, take the simple ritual of foot washing on Holy Thursday. The image is meant to remind us of Jesus' self humbling on the cross. However, in our